Adult Dating History

A married couple doesn’t have to be bored or dissatisfied with one another to want to explore. Some, in fact, start out knowing that they want to have lives of multiple loves and erotic adventure. For open couples such as those, free dating arrangements are one way to go.

The freest of arrangements is usually characterized by full ability to date, love, and make love on any whim by either party. Sometimes this is the best thing for very confident couples. They are solid in their love for one another and experience joy for the other when they hear about a wonderful new lover. For couples of this nature, an outside experience can even serve to deepen their primary romantic bond.

Other couples decide to have more rules. Rules are not generally made to restrict out of a sense of jealously, but instead are in place to maintain the integrity of the primary relationship as they understand it. For some, the main rule could be as simple as each partner just letting the other partner know if they are planning to indulge in the fruits of another. For others, it may be that Friday night is their night to be together, so there will be no dates with others during that time. A fairly universal and infinitely wise rule is that safer sex must always be used.

Freedom is a great thing for open couples, but as with any system, it is not without complications. The biggest obstacle to responsible free dating is lack of communication. Every single person has different desires and needs. One person, even one who has been part of a poly community for many years, is not necessarily well versed in the protocol and expectations of another. Too much is often assumed by monogamous couples about how things work. Open couples can make the same mistakes. Partners talking with one another is the way to make a good open marriage sublime.

Most of the time if men are in the position where sex is readily available to them, they won’t turn it down. In fact, I can’t really think of a good reason on the spot right now as to why men would ever turn down sex in general.

Both men and women have numerous amounts of options when it comes to styling their pubic hair. Two polar opposites are very popular right now, especially for women; au natural bush a la 70s, or vajazzling (which is the application of rhinestones and glitter to the public area and vulva). Many women also sport the “trimmed” bush, landing strip, bermuda triangle or are completely bald. Do men have a preference as to what they want a woman’s nether-regions to look like? Probably. If men are hooking up with a woman who has pubes that they can’t stand will they call off the sex dating? Probably not. I do, however have a couple interesting stories for you on this topic.

My current girl has mentioned to me on several occasions that she wants my feedback on how she decides to style her hair-down-there. Personally, I don’t care what it looks like. I would prefer it if it wasn’t a crazy 70s bush, and i’m not too keen on the idea of glueing glitter and stones to your vag. That’s a bit weird for my taste. I asked her one day why she even wanted my opinion and she said that her ex would always make a point of stating what he preferred him women to look like. “As long as theres a little hair to keep my nose warm, I’m good,” he would say. Excuse me while I gag.

At the end of the day it’s your own personal choice, and this notion is pretty obvious. Whatever makes you feel the best and ives you confidence is your best bet!