Adult Dating History

The feeling of horniness is a good indication that the body wants sex or a masturbation session. It also, strangely enough, can point toward a good time to dive head first into another kind of satisfying pursuit. It may be overreaching to say don’t tap into that favorite adult sex search when you get excited, but once in a while it is a good idea to see where following that energy to another place might lead.

Sexual excitement is a powerful force. When sublimated into a creative pursuit, amazing work can be the result. Think about the sheer power of the sex drive. Then think about that force sublimated into bursts of paint on a canvas, the passionate creation of a clay sculpture, or even the meticulous preparation of a fabulous meal. There is something about the procreative drive that has a deep kinship with the creative drive.

Even in terms nonspecific to linking the creative with the procreative urges, just the pure vigor of the energy associated with the sex drive can be put to good use elsewhere. In some sports traditions, coaches will tell their teams not to get laid the night before the big game. It could be that the extra anxiety level from not having an orgasm too close to the time of the game can give a sports figure an edge to kick it into high gear. It could be an interesting experiment for anyone to try out taking a break from sexual gratification to see what else might come of it, so to speak. A passionate essay, a vigorous dance routine, or a killer tennis match, perhaps? You never know if holding off from beating off will give you an advantage.

After the experiment, it is always nice to get back to basics. You may have discovered that your horny self is a great songwriter. You can celebrate by calling a fuck buddy and enjoying to your heart’s content.

If you are among the single men looking to enter the Adult dating world consider patience first. The Adult dating world isn’t just about a bunch of people that want to fuck all the time it’s about people trying to satisfy a certain need. You have to determine whether that is what you really want. For instance you could be in a place where romance is what you want but you are just horny at the moment. You’d be better off just using porn to get rid of the urge. Then you wouldn’t have to worry about the entanglements you are going to make. If you are making the wrong decision you are getting entangled with things that will be difficult at best to get out of. Read more »

When you picture your ideal adult dating relationship in your head, what is the age difference between you and your partner?

Have you ever noticed that as you get older, age difference becomes less and less important. When you were in high school, you would probably get called names for dating someone five years younger or older than you. In your twenties, it is possible than a significant age difference between you and your partner may cause a stir amongst family members and possibly friends. But when you’re in your thirties I don’t believe it matters anymore.

Think of it this way. Do you have any younger siblings? Would you consider it weird to date your younger sibling’s friend? The same goes for an older sibling, or a parent’s co-worker. Would you feel comfortable in that situation? If you are twenty four, would you date someone ten years older than you?

Another argument could be that age doesn’t negate a personality. There are some women under the age of twenty-five who are mature enough to date men in their thirties and forties. And there are men in their thirties who have the same level of maturity as sixteen year old girls.

And finally, there are some men and women who believe that “age ain’t nothing but a number”, and as long as you are of legal age they will be willing to have sex with you. Hey, if the shoe fits, right?

Women don’t necessarily have to be visually stimulated in order to get off. In fact, it is easier for some woman to fantasize about having sex with a certain someone as opposed to watching an adult film. Women fantasize about sex, having sex, watching people have sex, etc. a lot more than some men may think or care to believe. A lot of women think up some pretty saucy fantasies, and wish to act them out with the men they are dating. Here is a list of some of the most common thought out female sex fantasies.

1. Domination (Both being the dominatrix and submissive)

The idea of being in charge and holding power in the sexual relationship is just as much of a turn on as the polar opposite – being submissive and not being able to control anything that is being done to you; don’t forget your safe words!

2. Teacher/Student

Pretending you are having sex with someone that society frowns upon is a major turn on. Being told you can’t do someone or something just makes you want to do them/it even more.

3. Sex with a Stranger

No-strings attached, no worries about what your mutual friends will think; this sounds like perfect sex.

4. Threesome (with another woman OR man)

Everyone has some sort of threesome fantasy. Double the pleasure, double the fun.

5. Voyeurism

Knowing you’re being watched have sex secretly by a third party intensifies sex.

6. Force Fantasies

I don’t want to call these “rape fantasies” for obvious reasons, but women love being pushed up against walls, having their arms and legs held down in a forceful manner, etc.

7. Exhibitionism

Just because women may say “no” to making a homemade porn flick with you doesn’t mean she hasn’t fantasized about being in porn at  least once in her lifetime.

8. Private Dancer

Basically the same as above. There is no way a woman would give up her job and become a stripper, but that doesn’t mean she hasn’t fantasized about giving you your own private lap dance.

9. Man in Uniform

There is something about a man in uniform that drives women’s libidos wild. They look proper, prestigious and powerful. Enough said.

10. Sex in Water

There is something naughty about sneaking around and fooling around in a pool, lake or hot tub.

Obviously there are many different thing you and your partner can say to each other during sex to enhance the experience, but according to a recently poll conducted by a Sirius Cosmo radio show there is one phrase a woman can say in bed that will please her man every time, and there is one phrase that a woman can say to please herself while in bed every time. These phrases will skyrocket your sex dating lives. What are the phrases you may be asking?

The One Phrase a Man Wants to Hear in Bed

“I’m coming!”

The one thing a man is constantly thinking about during sex is if he is pleasuring you correctly. Hearing you say you are about to climax just reminds him that he is doing a good job of pleasuring you and hitting all “the right spot”. The idea to him that you are about to orgasm and past the point of no return is extremely hot for him, and is also a “go ahead” for him to climax as well considering it takes women longer to reach that point than men.

The One Phrase a Woman Wants to Hear in Bed

“I love how you [verb] my [body part]!”

Women love verbalizing things or certain actions during sex because it focuses their attention of the act and can heighten the intensity and pleasure of it for them. Saying “I love when you nibble on my ear” or “I love when you lick the inside of my thigh” is a woman’s way of helping herself experience the pleasure that she is feeling. It’s like eating really good food; sometimes talking about how good the food you’re eating is can actually make it taste better. Also, the phrase helps you to stay in the moment. If your mind tends to wander during sex, this can be a good trick to help keep you focused and pleasured.

These days many people are skeptical about finding someone to date for sexual purposes only. Finding a friend with benefits, fuck buddy, or sex friend is really not uncommon at all. Sex dating does work and can be healthy for your sex and love life.

The biggest worry most people have is that the line between no-strings-sttached sex and making love may be crossed. Especially by the female party. It is more common amongst women, scientifically. after a woman orgasms she releases a hormone in her body called oxytocin. This is what makes mothers bond with their children, but when having sex it can trick a women into feeling a sense of comfort and trust in her sexual partner. No wonder it has been nicknamed “the cuddle hormone”. No need to worry though, if you and your partner have laid out the clear grounds that you are hooking up with each other for sex and sex only, then it is possible to live a healthy lifestyle at the same time.

Be careful not to cross that line. Spending time with each other in such an intimate way can definitely lead to  the possibility of one party beginning to feel more than just a sexual connection. Be alert for signs and signals that you or your sexual partner may be falling for you in some way or another. This may be a sign that the sexual relationship needs to end, pronto. On the other hand, if you’re both feeling it, why not take things to the next level?

Also, you will want to make sure that you both mutually agree on the specifics of your sexual relationship. If you don’t want it to be exclusive (which would normally be the case) make sure you both know that. There is nothing worse than sleeping with multiple people and your partner isn’t aware, or even worse finding out your partner is sleeping with other people and you had no idea. Be sure to get checked for STDs on a regular basis and practice safe sex. Just wearing a condom isn’t enough when you are engaging in a sexual based relationship. Even if your partner tells you that they aren’t being intimate with anyone else, you can never be too sure of that. Always get tested.

There’s nothing wrong with staying on good terms with an ex. I don’t fully believe in the notion of cutting of the person you were dating completely from your life when you break up. What if it was a mutual break up and you two still have a friendly relationship and like to hang out? Is there anything so wrong with that? I don’t think so. In fact I think its perfectly normal to maintain a healthy friendship with an ex, I have with all of the women I’ve dated. Yes, eventually we’ve grown further apart over time, but that is normal. Why force that action when it will inevitably happen anyway?

I also don’t think there is anything wrong with having sex with your ex from time to time. You are both consenting adults who are horny and need to get laid, so go for it. The only problem that can arise from such a situation is when the line of “fucking” crosses over into “making love”. You will never be able to move on with your life if you have an “on and off thing” happening with your ex.

What if your ex suddenly becomes interested in someone else and wants to pursue a relationship with them? This is completely normal, of course, but how will it make you feel? All of a sudden your close friend will be wanting to spend less and less time with you and more and more time with their new love interest. Not to get anyone down, but this is just the way the world works. If you can handle that sort of situation, and I know a few people who are strong and confident enough to do so, than by all means stay in contact with your ex. But if you are in the majority of us sensitive folk and wouldn’t even want to hear about your ex being with someone else, then I highly recommend you slowly and naturally let your friendship with your ex fizzle away. There no problem with staying in touch from time to time, but hanging out more than once every two weeks is not the best idea.

I wanted to write this blog because I hate when all of my friends tell me to stop talking to my exes. It isn’t harming me and I know they don’t mind. We all lead separate lives, I just don’t like having any enemies in my life. I wanted to be able to tell you that is is okay to stay friendly with an ex, as long as you are aware of the consequences and fully prepared to take action and let go when the time comes, because believe me, it will come.

My favourite place to have sex is in public. I’m always extra excited when the woman I’m dating is also up for the idea of doing the deed in places where we could potentially be caught. The thought of being caught is half of the fun after all. One of my exes and I used to play a game where we would walk around the city during the day. We would take turns picking a random spot to have sex. The game turned into a “I dare you to fuck me” type game. Man it was so fun. Keep in mind I was young; these days i don’t think I could pass for playing a game like that. However, I still like to have sex in public as much as possible, without being tacky about it. See, that’s the key. There’s a fine line that can be crossed when deciding to do it in public places. Here is my personal list of Dos & Don’ts when it comes to having public sex:

1. Don’t be too public with you location choice
If you choose extremely public places like sidewalks, you may get arrested for prostitution. There’s a fine line you can cross when choosing spots to do it. Don’t be tacky about it. You can still have class when gettin’ public ass (I know you like that little rhyme I did there).

2. Don’t do it near family!
Thinking about a little under-the-table handjob? Maybe sex at a family reuinion? Don’t do it. Yes, the thought about getting caught is hot, but only by strangers. Do you really want Nana to walk in to the dining room only to catch a glimpse of you railing sweet darling Catherine who hasn’t even been introduced to your family properly yet? Yeah, I didn’t think so.

3. Do do it in a park, campsite, forest, etc.
My first public sexual experience was on a park bench by a lake at night time. The park was surrounded by trees and although it was dark out, it was quite the popular site for late-night fishing. Let’s just say those fisherman caught more than what they were fishing for that night. Dark places are best for a first time experience.

4. Don’t do it in a washroom
I know washrooms are the prime spot for fucking when you’re out at bars and nightclubs. By all means, go for it if you want. My advice is not to do it simply for hygienic reasons. There is some nasty shit growing in public washrooms. Do you really want all of that bacteria around your orifices?

Just remember to respect the area and clean up after yourself. If you know there are children in the area, pass. Respect the environment and your neighbours!

A new prophylactic being dubbed as the ‘Viagra condom’ may be hitting shelves in Europe soon. This condom will definitely help men and women worldwide better their sex lives. Its main function is to not only help men achieve an erection during sex, but is also being marketed to men who become soft when its time to put the condom on, “which is a sizeable number of men” says Dr. Kieth Jarvi, chief of staff, urology at Mt. Sinai Hospital and professor at the University of Toronto.

This new condom was developed by Futura Medical who are based in the U.K, and contains a gel called Zanifi in it. When this gel comes in contact with a penis it helps to dilate the blood vessels which enhances erections and makes them firmer and longer lasting.

Futura medical has a global distribution deal for the new condom with the company who owns Durex. However the condom still needs medical approval from the North American market which could take years.

Imagine all of the satisfied men and women, both young and old, if this condom lives up to its name? The dating lives of many people world-wide is sure to improve! Not to be blunt, but I can definitely recall on a few occasions having a little trouble putting the rubber on. I was able to finish the job, but I feel the pain of men who start to lose their wood when attempting to slap on a jolly.

There are more than a few stereotypes about how to find sex on the fly. Some horny men believe that you have to find it in an adult bookstore or some other public place where anonymous people are willing to do wild things in a booth or a dark corner. Another narrative says that this kind of sex is really only available to the funky, hip people living in the cities. The truth is that suburban people represent! There is plenty of enjoyment to be had in the ‘burbs and rural areas. This has pretty much always been the case, but now with the prevalence of the internet, adult sex dating is easier to hook into than ever before.

Hook up sites abound these days. All you really need to do is to go to your favorite search engine, put in your town and a few words that describe what you are looking for like sex or dating friends. Unless you live in the remotest of areas, there will be several dating sites that cover your area. At least some of the people on any site may appreciate the long term relationship possibility, but what they are really on the site for is to find good sex on any given night. That partner in unbridled lust could be you.

Sometimes it is not even at all necessary to go through the filter of looking for a date. ‘Lifestyle’ or swinger groups bill themselves as just that- they are interested in meeting people for fun, enjoyable, energetic sex. They generally mean no more and no less. A general meetup site will host groups of people who want to meet for doing everything from making pottery to playing tennis to studying for the SATs. In the midst of all those will be private groups that will show up if you provide the right keywords. Have a naughty, and clear-sighted imagination and search for your true heart’s desire.