Suppose you and your partner have a good and active sex life. Still, you find it gets monotonous once in a while. This is not at all an uncommon scenario. You may also be the types for whom the idea of exploring beyond the couple status has sounded like a fun idea, but there has seemingly been no outlet for it. Neither one of you know where to meet other couples, and neither wants the other to start stepping out alone. Setting up a house party in your own home for discreet couples who want to play might be the solution for you.
There are a number of ways to begin gathering friends with benefits for your party. One of the best ways is to start to hang out in places where alternative couples like to go. Many swinger, or lifestyle events have preliminary social nights where people can get to know one another before a sexually permissive event. Even if you decide to go to someone else’s swinger party, you can choose whether to participate or not. If you want to go just to see who you’d like to invite to your own private party, that could be a good plan.
Running an adult sex search online could be useful. You and your partner may want to look for physical traits like nice boobs, tall, or an uncut dick. You may be interested in people with experience in multi-partner sex. If you are interested in finding partners for longer than a one-night affair, you may want to have compatible interests like card games, home brewing, or tennis. Whatever the two of you find important can go into your specially crafted online ad.
Whether you meet people at other people’s parties, alternative social groups, or online, gather four or five couples who you feel you can trust. Put out a few snacks. Invite them to BYOB and BYOCL (condoms and lube). Enjoy your new fuck-buddies.